who are you?
Who the fuck do you think you are? That’s actually a good question. Who are you? Here are seven things about who you are.
Point number one – there’s something that I’ve been curious about for a couple of years now. It’s *** approach and you can add to this Robert Johansson, and it seems that there is something about how you are when you operate out of this everything becomes clear. It becomes like the anchor point from which you make good decisions. It’s something I’ve been curious about for a while.
Second point – of all the things I’ve seen so far, one good way to talk about who you are it seems to be a feeling. Now you can use the word feeling, emotion, kinesthetic, semantic experience, but that seems to be the most accurate, or useful, or fun way that I’ve found to describe who I am, other than the more spiritual one if you go with Abraham Ikes, that’s something else. But in terms of really, really simple down to earth points of view to describe the sense of who you are; I find these to be useful.
Third point – let’s imagine that who you are is a feeling. Have you ever had this experience where either you’re watching a movie or you’re doing something and you go oh my God this is really who I am, and for a second or for a while you’re in the state or in that experience. And from that point of view, everything becomes clear. You go oh of course, and then for some reason it goes away and you go how the fuck do I get it back? So I’ve tracked the experiences that give me that. So for example, I’ve talked about it, but some Japanese animation gives me that. Being with some person gives me that. Simple stuff like, well less simple stuff, I remember the first training I did with Richard Bentler. I had to drive from home to Chicago. It was a billion hour’s drive, but when I was there I felt like this is really who I am and I went hmm.
So the question is how do you operate out of who you are? So we’ve got some pieces of the puzzle. If you go into the vestibular system, it seems that it’s easier to get there. But, one other way to do it is to simply make a list of specific behaviors or things to do that give you that feeling, and then you can do them more often.
The last thing that I’m playing with, and it makes the link between the law of attraction and NLP, and all of that. It is your ability to take something specific, one context although it can be a vague context or a very generic context, and take the time to really determine what it is that you want and you don’t want in regards to that specific thing. And the goal is to get to a point where when you think about it you get where Kevin says you get the sweet spot. So you might have this ultimate vision of who you’d like to be, but by moving through what you want and you don’t want, you get to a smaller step in the right direction. And that smaller step, well it makes you feel good when you think about it and you believe you can achieve it. And then the “law of attraction” works for you and then you can get it quicker.